In teaching a student recently, I was pulled aside and told “This is not fun, I don’t want to be here”.
I smiled. I helped the student to the edge of the pool, lifted the gear out, disassembled it myself, and called an instructor over to discuss ‘Next steps’.
I understand the student’s frustration. In this particular case, several small things had gone wrong and they just were not getting it. I am a firm believer that if it does not bring joy, get rid of it; at least when it comes to hobbies. :)
I feel the same way with professional relationships. If a relationship is not working for both parties, it’s OK to shake hands and walk away. I don’t feel it is necessary to try and salvage it, or work on it, or any of the other things we sometimes do with more personal relationships.
If it does not bring joy, if it’s no fun for you being a part of a professional relationship, it’s ok, to walk away.
Oh the student arranged for one-on-one training. I hope it works out and they can find the joy in diving. I know I do. :)
Until next time,
I <3 |<