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Thank You for Small Acts of Kindness

Dear Reader,

Five or six years ago, my good friend – and the Don of the PHP Community- Mr. Michelangelo van Dam – was listening to me ramble  at a conference.  I was rambling on about the fact that every time I go over to Europe, I have to lug around my crappy power converter, and sometimes the converter won’t fit on the power strips provided at conferences at the podiums. I’ve actually had to present on batter and hope that the battery lasts. (it always did)

A while later, I ran into Mike in the hall and he handed me a cord. It was the cord to an Apple power adapter but with the European end on it. He told me that he had several spares and asked me to take this one. I smiled and took it and thanked him for his kindness. When I got home, I put it gently int my “cable box” (any audio geek or programmer knows what that is) and honestly, I forgot about it…that is until last week.

I am working  with a company that is Mac-centric so while my primary machine is now Windows, I am carrying my Mac with me so I can get work done. The problem is that I still have that 1 crappy power converter. While packing, I remembered Mike’s gift. I dug through my cable box and there it was just waiting for me to remember it and use it. I’m happy to say that as I sit here and type this on my Windows machine, my Mac is quietly humming away building a docker container or some such nonsense. Both machines are powered. :)

I know that any Mac user usually has 2 or more of these cables laying around from old power supplies that have crapped out but the cord is still good, so I know that it didn’t cost him much to give it to me; but that’s not the point. He saw a need, and he quietly did what he could to fill it. It doesn’t matter that I didn’t use the cable until years later, what matters is that he made the effort to solve my problem…and it eventually did.

Open source developers are like this. They give of their time to build things, things that you may not need right now. When you do need them, they are there and ready for you. Their acts of kindness – small or large – come into play exactly when you need them.

The next time you install a new open source package because it’s exactly what you need to build the project you are working on…take a moment to drop the author an email and thank them. Thank them for their act of kindness. You’d be surprised at home many of them never hear from users and are appreciative of your small act of kindness.

Until next time,
I <3 |<
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p.s. Thanks Mike for the power cord…it is EXACTLY what I needed. :)

My 2019 in Content

Dear Reader,

Creation

In 2019 I created

Consumption

In 2019

  • I read 19 books. Not the 24 I had hoped for*, but better than the 12 in 2018.
  • Consumed entirely too much TV – TV being the generic term for movies and episodic tele-plays I consumed across multiple devices – which is why I didn’t hit my numbers on books. I’ve got to flip that.

Conclusion

I’m ok with my 2019 stats, but I think I can do better. I’ve already started writing a book that will be published early next year and I’ve already roughed out a keynote talk. I’ve also started a third podcast. (More on that later)

This post isn’t to brag, and it is not to make anyone feel that they haven’t done enough. I’ve done this much because of how I am wired. I am wired to create things. (Note: I did not say anything I created was good, just that I created it)

I firmly believe that I should create more than I consume, but that is a maxim for me, not for everybody. You do you and be proud of it.

Until next time,
I <3 |<
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* When you count re-reads, I went well over 24. Some books I read 3 times this year.

Why I teach

Dear reader,

I am a selfish person. I do not generally like to share my time with anyone and would rather spend it doing the things I love like video games and scuba diving. However, I owe a debt that I am honor bound to repay.

I am where I am in life because others helped me get here. Yes, I am a self-taught programmer, I mean that in the traditional way of I have no formal training in software development. But self-taught does not mean that I did it all myself. I learned from others. I read their blogs, I listened to their podcasts, I went to their conference sessions. I did the learning, but others all around me taught, mentored, and generally lifted me up to where I am.

Knowing this, I spend a portion of every day trying to help others. Some efforts are more successful than others, but as long as I am trying, I am paying back the debt I owe.

Others sacrificed so I can be where I am. It is my duty to sacrifice so that I can lift the next generation of developers up higher than I could go. To lift them up on my shoulders so that they can stand there and see further than I ever could.

Until next time,
I <3 |<
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You will fail

Dear Reader,

It has come out recently that while packing up to leave the White House, the previous administration’s  staffers left notes all over the place for incoming administration’s staffers stating “You will fail.” I am sure they meant this to be a subversive and demoralizing message meant to make sure that things did not get off to a good start. I’m not here to discuss what kind of people it takes to willfully wish other people fail and hope for the worst. I also have no idea if the messages were effective or not, that’s not the point here. 

The point I want to make about these notes is that they were absolutely right and on-point. Every person who received one of those messages did fail at some point, probably on that very day. Here’s the fun part, so did the people who wrote them. We are human, we all fail, it’s a fact of life. 

You will fail at some point today.

I will fail at some point today, for every value of today.

Whether it is missing a deadline, or not doing something you promised a friend you would do; at some point today, you will fail. I’m here to tell you that it’s ok, failing is how we learn.

In tech, some companies adopt the mantra of “fail fast” for that very reason. The faster we fail, the faster we can learn from that failure, and the faster we can learn what works.

It’s ok to try something new.

It’s ok to fail when you do.

It’s ok to get up and try again. 

You will fail. Own it. 

Until next time,
I <3 |<
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I wanna be like my Roomba

Dear Reader,

I wanna be like my Roomba.

My Roomba kicks off every morning at 8:00 Am ET sharp and sets out to accomplish the day’s mission.

My Roomba does not feel like a failure if does not complete it’s given task in the allotted time.

My Roomba does not take into consideration that it failed yesterday before starting today.

My Roomba does not doubt itself and wonder if it is really qualified to clean the floor.

My Roomba faces each day knowing that it will do it’s job to the best of it’s ability and that’s good enough.

I wanna be like my Roomba.

Until next time,

I <3 |<