After 20 years of driving my little Miata, I finally traded it in and bought myself a Jeep Wrangler. (It’s much easier to tote scuba diving gear in a Jeep than in a Miata!)
Driving down A1A in Juno Beach the other day I noticed something. Every time I passed another Jeep Wrangler, the driver smiled and waved. (I passed quite a few, this was no small sampling) It’s like I am now part of a secret club where no matter what we are doing, we take a moment to smile and wave at each other. My wife, the lovely and talented Kathy, drives a Mazda 3. We pass those all the time and I’ve never seen any of their drivers smile and wave. Jeep owners however, identify as a group though and have determined that the group is a fun one.
As best I can tell, the rules of the group are, if you pass another Wrangler, you smile and wave. That’s it. I know I’m new to the group, but so far, what I’ve NOT seen is a Wrangler driver pass a Ranger Rover and scowl and flip them the bird. I’ve not seen Wrangler owners try to run a Hummer off the road. I know I’m still new to the group, but so far I’ve not noticed that it’s a rule that if two or more Wrangler owners are together chewing the fat, the rule is that we have to ridicule the car choices of non-wrangler drivers.
The rule seems to be, be nice to other Wrangler drivers, and there’s no need to not be nice to any other drivers.
Maybe in tech, we need to adopt these rules. Maybe we need to get together at conferences, user groups, or just online and talk about how awesome our tech stack is, without feeling it necessary to run down another tech stack. (i’m not just talking about people insulting PHP, I’ve seen plenty of PHP developers run down other tech stacks as well) Maybe, JUST MAYBE, the tech stack we chose works for us and for our problems, but it won’t work for others and solve their problems. Maybe, there’s more to the decision than whether it’s popular on Stack Overflow.
Maybe tech would be an overall better place if we adopted the Wrangler Rule. Be nice and wave at those who use our approved tech stack/framework, but don’t be mean to others that use something else.
Until next time,
I <3 |<